Road Map

The following guide is designed to help your group on the STC Journey

 

YOUR SHARE THE CARE

JOURNEY GUIDE (or ROAD MAP)

 

This reference road map can help group members easily locate information they may need on key subjects covered in the Share The Care book.

 

Though the beginning chapters of Share The Care are written to the two people who will organize the first meeting, everyone should read the book as it provides valuable (individual and group) advice and ideas to help them through stressful times or situations they may encounter during their journey together.

 

All of our Share The Care forms have been incorporated into this site.  They are also still accessible for download on www.sharethecare.org.  Please note, we have replaced the Medical History Form (in the book) with two new online forms: the Medical Profile and the Medical Events Log.

 

 

GETTING EVERYONE ON BOARD

PART 1 (Chapters 1-4)

WHAT’S A CAREGIVER GROUP AND WHO NEEDS ONE? …….. p. 3-35

 

INTRODUCING A WELL-TRAVELLED ROUTE

PART 2 (Chapters 5 – 9)

STARTING THE GROUP AND MAKING IT RUN …………………… p. 39-140

 

THE GROUP JOURNEY BEGINS

PART 3 (Chapters 10-20)

BEING PART OF A GROUP AND SHARING THE JOBS …………. p. 141-252

 

DIFFICULT TURNS IN THE ROAD

PART 4 (Chapters 21-28)

KEEPING THE GROUP (AND YOURSELF) GOING ………………. p. 253-264

 

REFLECTIONS ON A LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE

PART 5     (Chapters 29-30)

BEYOND THE GROUP: CHANGED LIVES ………………………… p. 301-320

 

 

 

 

 

GETTING EVERYONE ON BOARD                                                         return>

PART 1 (Chapters 1-4)

WHAT’S A CAREGIVER GROUP AND WHO NEEDS ONE? …….. p. 3-35

 

Taking the First Steps p. 22-30

     • Overcoming Care Recipient and Family Resistance to Help         p. 22-27

     • Approaching People to Be in the Group                                             p. 27-30

How To Use This Book                                                                             p. 31-35

     • The Seven Share The Care Principles                                                p. 33-35

 

 

 

 

 

INTRODUCING A WELL-TRAVELLED ROUTE                                   return>

PART 2 (Chapters 5 – 9)

STARTING THE GROUP AND MAKING IT RUN …………………… p. 39-140

 

Assessing the Care Recipient’s/Family Needs                                    p. 39-42

Choosing a Leader & Coordinator for the First Meeting                   p. 43-45

Planning the First Meeting and Getting Started                                  p. 46-63

     • Whom to Invite                                                                                       p. 46-49

     • When and Where to Hold the Meeting                                              p. 50

     • Inviting People to The Meeting                                                           p. 50-52

     • Identifying group skills                                                                          p. 52-60

     • Preparing The Meeting Overview                                                       p. 60- 63

The Scripted Meeting (For the Leader & Coordinator)

        Part One of the Meeting – Getting to Know Each other                p. 64-72

        Part Two of the Meeting – Learning the Systems                          p. 73-100

The Workbook                                                                                             p. 101-137

      • Forms explained                                                                                   p. 101-123

      • After the Meeting – A Checklist for the Coordinator                       p. 118-119

      • Other Useful Forms and Practical Ideas                                           p. 124-137

 

 

 

 

THE GROUP JOURNEY BEGINS                                                            return>

PART 3 (Chapters 10-20)

BEING PART OF A GROUP AND SHARING THE JOBS …………. p. 141-252

 

What Group Means – Working Together                                               p. 141-146   

The Most Common Caregiver-Group Pitfalls and

   How to Avoid Them                                                                                 p. 147-152

The Jobs: An Overview                                                                             p. 153-159

Going with Your Friend to the Doctor                                                    p. 160-163

10 Steps in making a Hospital Stay Painless as Possible                p. 164-172

Finding Your Way Through the Medical Maze                                     p. 173-192

      Important Review Again – Specialist Captains                              p. 129-131

      • Central Medical File (create a hard copy of records)                      p. 174-188

      • Doing Personal Things for Your Friend                                           p. 188

      • Medical Equipment                                                                              p. 188-192

Caregiving at Home (and Far From Home)                                           p. 193-211

      • What the Group Shouldn’t Do, and Special Training                    p. 193-194

      • Hiring Professional Help                                                                     p. 194-199

      • When Caregiving at Home is No Longer Possible                         p. 199-200

      • Caregiving Far From Home                                                                p. 200-211

Making the Home Safe and Comfortable                                              p. 212-219

      • Get Permission, Enlist the Family                                                      p. 213

Beyond Safety and Comfort (Quality of Life Suggestions)                 p. 220-228

When Groups Help Out at Home                                                             p. 229-237

      • Plan for Easy Access                                                                           p. 229-230

      • In the Event of An Emergency                                                           p. 230-231

(SEE EMERGENCY PROCEDURES BUTTON ON THIS WEB SITE)

      • How Things Work in The Home                                                         p. 233

(SEE IMPORTANT INFORMATION BUTTON ON THIS WEB SITE)

Getting Their Affairs in Order                                                                   p. 238-250

      • Vital Statistics, Legal Documents, Medical Directives              p.  238-242

      • Health Insurance, Getting Bills Paid, Final Wishes                       p. 242-250

      • Important Review Again – Specialist Captains                              p. 129-131

 

 

 

 

DIFFICULT TURNS IN THE ROAD                                                          return>

PART 4 (Chapters 21-28)

KEEPING THE GROUP (AND YOURSELF) GOING ………………. p. 253-264

 

Being With Someone Who Is Seriously Ill

       • Individually                                                                                           p. 253-258   

       • Healing as a Group                                                                             p. 254-264

What Ifs, Do’s, And Don’ts                                                                        p. 265-278

The Second Meeting: Ten Signals That It’s Time to Have One      p. 279-282

The Second Meeting: The Agenda                                                         p. 283-285

Confronting Yourself (Emotional Issues)                                               p. 287-291

Changes (You Should and Shouldn’t Make In Your Life)                    p. 292-294

The Closing Meeting:  Why You Need to Have One                           p. 295-296

The Closing Meeting:  The Agenda                                                        p. 297-298

 

 

 

 

 

REFLECTIONS ON A LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE                      return>

PART 5     (Chapters 29-30)

BEYOND THE GROUP: CHANGED LIVES ………….………………  p. 301-320

                                   

Personal Meaning (What Individuals Have Gained)                             p. 301-306

The Healing Journey (Group Stories)                                                      p. 307-316

A Book With a Mission (ShareTheCaregiving, Inc.)                             p. 317-320

 

 

Please note that the contact information for ShareTheCaregiving, Inc.

listed in the book is out-of date.